An update from the past few days. I have been successful in convincing my wife that hum*liation is a key part of the role of a Domme. I explained how as I am always in control and in charge in the rest of my life, from work to social etc, I want to relinquish that control in the bedroom and to have a power exchange where she is in control. It helps me to de-stress and relax as well as providing me with some much needed "putting in place" where I don't get what I want when I want it. I told her it helps me to be a better person and keeps me sane. She agreed and said ever since she has stopped having sex with me and stopped worrying about pleasuring me, I have been more attentive, more loving, kinder and gentler with her. She agreed that she will hum*liate me and since then has almost everyday mentioned how small my cock is and how it should always be locked or tucked away.
This morning she played with the area above my cock as my cock was tucked between my legs, as if she was gently playing with a pussy. She then made me suck her breasts and nipples and told me that as I've been such a good girl and been helping with the kids more and around the house, getting all the things done that she's asked, she said I could have 2 mins and 30 seconds to kiss her legs and feet and arse. I was told not to kiss her pussy as I had not earned that yet. So she lay on her tummy and spread her legs and let me kiss her all over. For the last 40-50 seconds I concentrated on her arse and spent the time kissing her arsehole. She enjoyed that a lot and got really wet. I took my cue and gave her the vibrator and continued to kiss her legs and feet as she turned onto her back and used the vibrator to pleasure her pussy. At the same time she talked to me telling me how these toys pleasure her so much better than my little cock ever could and how she doesn't need my cock anymore. She came within a couple of minutes and was surprised how quickly she came. She said that using the toys herself meant she could control things better and knew how to make herself cum quickly. She emphasised again how she doesn't need me to fuck her any more.