A women's relationship with her vibrator

I like to masturbate! There I’ve said it!

It’s not to do with the quality or a lack of sex – nothing to complain about there. It’s just that some self love allows for the mind to truly wonder. I’m in total control (I’m a bit of a control freak in life) and I don’t have to worry about someone else’s pleasure, or insecurities about my body, or even if my legs are stubbly. Just lie back and let the sexual feelings flow!

In my younger life I was often in and out of relationships, and frequently lacked a true sexual chemistry. As a result I found masturbation was the most accessible and pleasurable way to satisfy my sexual thoughts. It was comforting and easy. I enjoy(ed) having a deep orgasm, and for many years, was the only place where I could explore and divulge my sexual desires. While these issues are much less relevant with my hubby, the relationship I have with masturbating is entwined with my sexuality and a hard one to break. (Plus I don’t want to break it lol).

I might enjoy it, but I still have a hang up over the act of actually fingering myself. I don’t even like that phase and cringe as I write it! Thankfully climax arrives most joyously by clitoral stimulation, so it's only when I'm feeling really dirty that there is a driven need to place my fingers inside myself.

However, my pussy does occasionally enjoy being teased and tempted from the inside. Plus, how do you properly fantasise about that hunk's big cock inside you?! And so we welcome the vibrator and dildo.....a women's best friends lol!

Here are a collection of selfies plus some pics hubby has taken during sex toy sexy time. The pics go back many years and document a loving friendship with my plastic friends 😆

Love your comments, but please try to be meaningful, respectful and engaging to my needs (basically not crass and just saying you want to fuck me!l lol) 🤣

Katie xxx