My wife plays with this 43 yr unmarried man occasionally. She is totally in control here and takes care of herself. She firmly holds his penis and plays with it in a hot erotic way. Holding his penis firmly, she manipulates it in her erotic pleasure till she comes to her climax and is relieved. (Sometimes, she experiences a series of very strong orgasms; her legs shake rapidly and she seems in traumatic condition sobbing and crying).
Once she gets thru her climax, the guy takes over and hammers her till he explodes inside or outside. That is how he takes care of himself and does not need to marry for now. Wife kisses him with a smile and rolls over to a side.
Wife and the man set the day and the time to meet. Usually, it is a Friday night around 9 PM.